Steele

No. 91

Thursday, June 14, 1711

In furias ignemque ruunt, Amor omnibus Idem.

Virg.

Tho' the Subject I am now going upon would be much more properly the Foundation of a Comedy, I cannot forbear inserting the Circumstances which pleased me in the Account a young Lady gave me of the Loves of a Family in Town, which shall be nameless; or rather for the better Sound and Elevation of the History, instead of Mr. and Mrs. such-a-one, I shall call them by feigned Names. Without further Preface, you are to know, that within the Liberties of the City of

Westminster

lives the Lady

Honoria

, a Widow about the Age of Forty, of a healthy Constitution, gay Temper, and elegant Person. She dresses a little too much like a Girl, affects a childish Fondness in the Tone of her Voice, sometimes a pretty Sullenness in the leaning of her Head, and now and then a Down-cast of her Eyes on her Fan: Neither her Imagination nor her Health would ever give her to know that she is turned of Twenty; but that in the midst of these pretty Softnesses, and Airs of Delicacy and Attraction, she has a tall Daughter within a Fortnight of Fifteen, who impertinently comes into the Room, and towers so much towards Woman, that her Mother is always checked by her Presence, and every Charm of

Honoria

droops at the Entrance of

Flavia

. The agreeable

Flavia

would be what she is not, as well as her Mother

Honoria

; but all their Beholders are more partial to an Affectation of what a Person is growing up to, than of what has been already enjoyed, and is gone for ever. It is therefore allowed to

Flavia

to look forward, but not to

Honoria

to look back.

Flavia

is no way dependent on her Mother with relation to her Fortune, for which Reason they live almost upon an Equality in Conversation; and as

Honoria

has given

Flavia

to understand, that it is ill-bred to be always calling Mother,

Flavia

is as well pleased never to be called Child. It happens by this means, that these Ladies are generally Rivals in all Places where they appear; and the Words Mother and Daughter never pass between them but out of Spite.

Flavia

one Night at a Play observing

Honoria

draw the Eyes of several in the Pit, called to a Lady who sat by her, and bid her ask her Mother to lend her her Snuff-Box for one Moment. Another Time, when a Lover of

Honoria

was on his Knees beseeching the Favour to kiss her Hand,

Flavia

rushing into the Room, kneeled down by him and asked Blessing. Several of these contradictory Acts of Duty have raised between them such a Coldness that they generally converse when they are in mixed Company by way of talking at one another, and not to one another.

Honoria

is ever complaining of a certain Sufficiency in the young Women of this Age, who assume to themselves an Authority of carrying all things before them, as if they were Possessors of the Esteem of Mankind, and all, who were but a Year before them in the World, were neglected or deceased.

Flavia

, upon such a Provocation, is sure to observe, that there are People who can resign nothing, and know not how to give up what they know they cannot hold; that there are those who will not allow Youth their Follies, not because they are themselves past them, but because they love to continue in them. These Beauties Rival each other on all Occasions, not that they have always had the same Lovers but each has kept up a Vanity to shew the other the Charms of her Lover.

Dick Crastin

and

Tom Tulip

, among many others, have of late been Pretenders in this Family:

Dick

to

Honoria

Tom

to

Flavia

Dick

is the only surviving Beau of the last Age, and

Tom

almost the only one that keeps up that Order of Men in this. I wish I could repeat the little Circumstances of a Conversation of the four Lovers with the Spirit in which the young Lady, I had my Account from, represented it at a Visit where I had the Honour to be present; but it seems

Dick Crastin

, the admirer of

Honoria

, and

Tom Tulip

, the Pretender to

Flavia

, were purposely admitted together by the Ladies, that each might shew the other that her Lover had the Superiority in the Accomplishments of that sort of Creature whom the sillier Part of Women call a fine Gentleman. As this Age has a much more gross Taste in Courtship, as well as in every thing else, than the last had, these Gentlemen are Instances of it in their different Manner of Application.

Tulip

is ever making Allusions to the Vigour of his Person, the sinewy Force of his Make; while

Crastin

professes a wary Observation of the Turns of his Mistress's Mind.

Tulip

gives himself the Air of a restless Ravisher,

Crastin

practises that of a skilful Lover. Poetry is the inseparable Property of every Man in Love; and as Men of Wit write Verses on those Occasions, the rest of the World repeat the Verses of others. These Servants of the Ladies were used to imitate their Manner of Conversation, and allude to one another, rather than interchange Discourse in what they said when they met.

Tulip

the other Day seized his Mistress's Hand, and repeated out of

Ovid's Art of Love

'Tis I can in soft Battles pass the Night,
Yet rise next Morning vigorous for the Fight,
Fresh as the Day, and active as the Light.

Upon hearing this,

Crastin

, with an Air of Deference, played

Honoria's

Fan, and repeated,

Sedley has that prevailing gentle Art,
That can with a resistless Charm impart
The loosest Wishes to the chastest Heart:
Raise such a Conflict, kindle such a Fire,
Between declining Virtue and Desire,
Till the poor vanquish'd Maid dissolves away
In Dreams all Night, in Sighs and Tears all Day.

When

Crastin

had uttered these Verses with a Tenderness which at once spoke Passion and Respect,

Honoria

cast a triumphant Glance at

Flavia

, as exulting in the Elegance of

Crastin's

Courtship, and upbraiding her with the Homeliness of

Tulip's

Tulip

understood the Reproach, and in Return began to applaud the Wisdom of old amorous Gentlemen, who turned their Mistress's Imagination as far as possible from what they had long themselves forgot, and ended his Discourse with a sly Commendation of the Doctrine of

Platonick

Love; at the same time he ran over, with a laughing Eye,

Crastin's

thin Legs, meagre Looks, and spare Body. The old Gentleman immediately left the Room with some Disorder, and the Conversation fell upon untimely Passion, After-Love, and unseasonable Youth.

Tulip

sung, danced, moved before the Glass, led his Mistress half a Minuet, hummed

Celia the Fair, in the bloom of Fifteen;

when there came a Servant with a Letter to him, which was as follows.

Sir, 'I understand very well what you meant by your Mention of Platonick Love. I shall be glad to meet you immediately in Hide-Park, or behind Montague-House, or attend you to Barn-Elms, or any other fashionable Place that's fit for a Gentleman to die in, that you shall appoint for,

Sir, Your most Humble Servant,
Richard Crastin.

Tulip's

Colour changed at the reading of this Epistle; for which Reason his Mistress snatched it to read the Contents. While she was doing so

Tulip

went away, and the Ladies now agreeing in a Common Calamity, bewailed together the Danger of their Lovers. They immediately undressed to go out, and took Hackneys to prevent Mischief: but, after alarming all Parts of the Town,

Crastin

was found by his Widow in his Pumps at

Hide-Park

, which Appointment

Tulip

never kept, but made his Escape into the Country.

Flavia

tears her Hair for his inglorious Safety, curses and despises her Charmer, is fallen in Love with

Crastin

: Which is the first Part of the History of the

Rival Mother

R.

Footnote 1:

Rochester's

Imitations of Horace

, Sat. I. 10.

return to footnote mark

Footnote 2:

A famous duelling place under elm trees, in a meadow half surrounded by the Thames.

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