← The Essays of Arthur Schopenhauer; Counsels and Maxims

Section 44. If possible, no animosity should be felt for anyone. But

Section 43. Money is never spent to so much advantage as when you have

been cheated out of it; for at one stroke you have purchased prudence.

carefully observe and remember the manner in which a man conducts himself, so that you may take the measure of his value,—at any rate in regard to yourself,—and regulate your bearing towards him accordingly; never losing sight of the fact that character is unalterable, and that to forget the bad features in a man's disposition is like throwing away hard-won money. Thus you will protect yourself against the results of unwise intimacy and foolish friendship.

Give way neither to love nor to hate, is one-half of worldly wisdom: say nothing and believe nothing, the other half. Truly, a world where there is need of such rules as this and the following, is one upon which a man may well turn his back.